I seem to be at that stage in life where everyone is buying houses. Sign of the times when you hit 30, I suppose. It's better than everyone being pregnant. I know what to do with houses and I am excellent at helping paint, decorate, buy cushions and haul lots of crap to the tip (I've had a lot of recent practice). I can also be relied upon to be v. enthusiastic about decor schemes and all things house. Babies I have zero idea what to do with. The whole process baffles me. I once distinguished myself by writing "Have a good baby!" in a card for a colleague about to go off on maternity leave...
However I think you'll agree it is much easier to buy a present for a baby than a house. All cute tiny things are automatically great so you're never short of options. I find housewarming presents much more tricky - trying to judge other people's taste in homeware is a lot more fraught than picking clothes, jewellery and the like. Hopefully you know their taste in most things but if there's a whole new house to decorate, you don't always know what look they're going for. There's nothing worse than landing someone with that deeply misjudged horrible present that they despise but have to hide in a cupboard and get out when you're due to visit. *shudders* I don't ever want to be that sort of giftgiver. Especially not when all my pals did so well buying me lovely (green) things for my place!
The obvious place to turn is somewhere like Not On The High Street but they're a smidgen predictable for my tastes. I prefer sites like Etsy and Uncommon Goods (especially as the latter has a cracking sustainability policy which you can read about here) for the personalised touch and can merrily spend hours browsing through random things I've never have discovered otherwise. The more mainstream shops shouldn't be left out though - I'm a total convert to The Range (shop in store btw - their online CS is pretty dire) and have you been in Asda or Matalan recently? Woodland animals ahoy!
So what have I been buying/drooling over recently?
You don't know how hard I wish I'd known about this mixtape doormat back when my brother and his wife last moved house! (It's customisable, which is a good job, cos their surname isn't Smith).
These coasters are on order for a Game of Thrones-loving pal of mine. Not too in-your-face.
I don't know where these little bear tumblers from Asda will end up but they were too cute not to buy! Someone will love them.
Is it weird to buy someone a clock as a housewarming gift? It probably is. But it's so lovely! Told you The Range were great at the mo.
I think I'm fighting (and losing) the age-old battle of buying things you secretly want for yourself. Must...resist...
Whilst I'm talking house, it occurs to me that although I moved in nearly a year ago, I never did do any celebratory welcome-to-the-new-abode posts. I've got this week off work and am attacking all those pesky little DIY jobs that I was too exhausted/lazy to do after moving in. It may well be ready to take some photos of by the end of the week!
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However I think you'll agree it is much easier to buy a present for a baby than a house. All cute tiny things are automatically great so you're never short of options. I find housewarming presents much more tricky - trying to judge other people's taste in homeware is a lot more fraught than picking clothes, jewellery and the like. Hopefully you know their taste in most things but if there's a whole new house to decorate, you don't always know what look they're going for. There's nothing worse than landing someone with that deeply misjudged horrible present that they despise but have to hide in a cupboard and get out when you're due to visit. *shudders* I don't ever want to be that sort of giftgiver. Especially not when all my pals did so well buying me lovely (green) things for my place!
The obvious place to turn is somewhere like Not On The High Street but they're a smidgen predictable for my tastes. I prefer sites like Etsy and Uncommon Goods (especially as the latter has a cracking sustainability policy which you can read about here) for the personalised touch and can merrily spend hours browsing through random things I've never have discovered otherwise. The more mainstream shops shouldn't be left out though - I'm a total convert to The Range (shop in store btw - their online CS is pretty dire) and have you been in Asda or Matalan recently? Woodland animals ahoy!
So what have I been buying/drooling over recently?
You don't know how hard I wish I'd known about this mixtape doormat back when my brother and his wife last moved house! (It's customisable, which is a good job, cos their surname isn't Smith).
These coasters are on order for a Game of Thrones-loving pal of mine. Not too in-your-face.
I don't know where these little bear tumblers from Asda will end up but they were too cute not to buy! Someone will love them.
Is it weird to buy someone a clock as a housewarming gift? It probably is. But it's so lovely! Told you The Range were great at the mo.
I think I'm fighting (and losing) the age-old battle of buying things you secretly want for yourself. Must...resist...
Whilst I'm talking house, it occurs to me that although I moved in nearly a year ago, I never did do any celebratory welcome-to-the-new-abode posts. I've got this week off work and am attacking all those pesky little DIY jobs that I was too exhausted/lazy to do after moving in. It may well be ready to take some photos of by the end of the week!
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Housewarming presents are definitely the hardest, but I am not convinced buying things you secretly want for yourself is a bad thing. It depends on the friend, of course, but I find that if it's something I'd be happy spending money on myself for, I'm doubly thrilled about spending it on someone else. (That may not make sense to anyone else, sorry!)
ReplyDeleteI like Wilko, had some great budget gems but also charity shops for weird and wonderful gifts. Got a lovely pink glass dressing table set for my friend in one last week x
ReplyDeleteThat mixtape doormat is going straight onto the Christmas list, cheers for the tip!
ReplyDeleteOh wow that The Smiths mixtape is the coolest thing! I love the coasters and the little bear tumblers too, they're so sweet. I always end up doing the same thing as you as well, I'll spot something really cute and end up wanting one for myself, haha! - Tasha
ReplyDeleteThat doormat is amazing!
ReplyDeleteMaria xxx